Can't take the hating...

[annie46]

I just cannot imagine why people feel the need to hate Jared so much - or - if hate is a strong word for you all then dislike Jared.

The guy seems nice and - whilst no one is perfect and every single one of us has a bad side (even me!) - it appears by getting married and having a baby Jared is now the epitomy of all evil.

I know a lot of people (including me) liked to indulge in a little 'J2' action and fantasy (still do to be honest) but if we are adult and realistic about this fantasy is all it was.

I do attempt to defend (if that is the right word) Jared when I feel people have gone to far but to a lot of these folks he is indefensible. People say go and comment on your own page so here I am - commenting and no doubt people will attack me for it but I really don't care.

There are so many awful things in life but having a baby and donating over $80,000 to charity isn't one of them. Jared is human like the rest of us - but what a human!! Seriously - why people feel the need to attack him because he isn't giving them what THEY want I will never know.

The latest is that Jared and Jensen are no longer friends - what a pile of shit - I am sure they are and I am sure that Jensen would be disgusted at all this hate...

My opinion of course - no need to agree...

Comments

[lisaj67.livejournal.com]

I agree with everything you've said here,It appears that the more good he does the more people hate on him and its getting seriously annoying,I think he is an exceptional human being and i think that makes some people feel inadequate and insecure maybe thats the reason so many people hate such a lovely person,Btw I too love some J2 action but as for them not being friends anymore,If Cliffer Kostermans twitter is to be believed they all had dinner at one their fave restaurants last night and new pictures from set show them laughing and throwing Jelly Beans,now does that sound like people who are not friends,I don't think so ,some people just need to keep their hateful comments to themselves x :)

[cherry916.livejournal.com]

I agree hun. No one is ever satisfied with anything. So there has to be a scrape goat to pick up the slack on their frustrations and anger and more than not they take it out on Jared. They call him stupid, unprofessional, a bad actor, a fame whore, they say Jensen would never be friends with him and you can tell.

Why? Well the MAIN reason they usually hate on Jared is because he gets in the way of their ships. Yeah I know. Especially on Tumblr, that's where the REAL hate is and you can usually see their true colors.

But they don't have any right to call themselves a fan if they hate Jared that much. Like you said he's human and makes mistakes but I haven't really seen one thing he's done to deserve any hate. Some people are just idiots.

[legion11.livejournal.com]

I agree, oh, I SO agree with you.

[cherrymmm.livejournal.com]

People hate Jared? I am not on Tumblr so maybe that is why I am unaware. They just hate him for existing or they hate his face or what? They hate him for not being in a relationship with Jensen and getting married and living his life to the fullest while still being awesome to his fans and working hard on our favorite show? People are fucking stupid. I'm glad I am out of that loop because it would make me miserable.

[goddess-julie.livejournal.com]

welcome to 100% of the reason i stay away from the majority of the comms.

i don't involve myself in any fandomness other than reading fic and i am ridiculously happy in my blind ignorance. i refuse to let other fans ruin my fandom experience.

[pkg8416.livejournal.com]

I know! I run into a lot of people like on Twitter, although a lot if the attacks are aimed at Danneel. Of course being the person who likes to pick a fight I dish their hate right back out to them! But they then turn on me but I say bring it! :) :)

[zomzoms.livejournal.com]

Thankfully my crappy internet connection has helped me miss these attacks on Jared.

I can't understand why people feel the need to bash him but then some people are just not happy unless they are putting others down. xx

[ruby-jelly.livejournal.com]

I've somehow managed to avoid the sort of comments you refer too, mostly.

Once I "foolishly" defended Daneel's actions as she sat behind Jensen at a convention, keeping out of his way while he WORKED! I just backed out of the room/journal quietly after I was reprimanded and told she was definitely "a bitch".

That was when I realised a partner would inevitably be disliked/judged/scorned, simply because they enjoyed a position a "fan" never would. As you said, $40,000 raised by fans and matched by the Padaleckis Not all fans are crazy!

Thank you for allowing me to comment on your page.

R

[snfan1000.livejournal.com]

Thank you for putting this topic up annie,i love that you are sticking up for Jared.I adore Jared and am so happy he found Gen and now has baby Thomas and as someone already said He and Gen donated $40,000 of there own personal money(no small amount)to sick kids how much more of wonderful people can they be.I too only read fan fic now cause i have gotten so sick of the stupid shit that goes on.Human beings need to be kinder to each other,this world would be a better place for it.

Having met Mr. Padalecki...

[krebsbach.livejournal.com]

He is a very nice man. As for all the haters. Jared and Gen are so cute together and obviously in love being anything but happy for them is just jealousy. Don't get me started on Jensen and Daneel who are perfect together. If Jensen din't true love Jared like his best friend/brother he wouldn't let the big guy hang all over him.